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modified: 09/03/08
Proper State of Mind
by Mark Nemetz
Looking back, I remember that I was angry right before everything
became quiet. (the key word in this story is “angry.”) I
was upset that it was Friday night, and once again, I had to work a
twelve-hour shift because a co-worker of mine, who normally worked
third shift, called-in sick. Worse yet, it had just started to rain,
so there went my 3-hour wash and wax job on my Gold Wing. It was
also 2:00 am – closing time for the local taverns. My attitude
toward motorcycle safety really changed after that dreadful night in
1984.
There’s not much to tell. I was in a hurry, it was raining,
and I was upset about having to work late. The car I was following
north out of town suddenly pulled over onto the shoulder of the
road. At that point a caution flag should have gone up for me. It
was also raining at that same time the local taverns were closing
the doors - that should have thrown-up another flag…but it didn’t.
I wasn’t thinking clearly, because as I had stated earlier, I was
angry.
I remember swinging extra wide to the left to give the driver of the
car more room. I couldn’t believe what happened next. The driver
did a hard 180 to the left in order to head-back into town. I
suppose I was traveling close to 55 MPH when it happened. With no
time to react, the driver-side door was suddenly in my path. The
collision was violent. I plowed straight into the car. The bike
actually stayed upright after the collision because the car was
wrapped-around my motorcycle. Fortunately, I was launched over
the car - not against it. I broke through the bike’s
windshield, and caught my legs and feet on the edge of the car’s
roof before I was launched into the air. I flew 52 feet
through the air and landed face down onto the shoulder of the
southbound lane. Suddenly, it was quiet.
I was lucky - only two broken toes, and a slight concussion. I had a
cracked full-face helmet, a missing tennis shoe, and a totally
destroyed Gold Wing. It was the first, and only time, I rode in an
ambulance.
Incredibly, the car’s occupants were not seriously injured. (one
occupant had glass in her eyes)
I found out later that the driver was coming back from a
bachelorette party. There were five girls in the car – and they
all had been drinking. Ironically, the girl who was getting married
was the driver. She was heading out of town to bring one of her
bride maids home when someone in the back seat yelled that “she”
wanted to be taken home first. The driver stated that before
she made her U-turn to head back into town, she looked into her rear
view mirror, but she didn’t see me. She also said that when she
looked into her rear view mirror, she remembered “seeing the
lights from town reflecting off the rain soaked highway.”
The problem was that one of those lights she saw in her rear view
mirror was the headlight from my motorcycle !
It took a long time for me to realize, and admit, that my accident
was preventable. I was not thinking clearly because I was upset
about the rain, and I was angry about having to work late. Anger,
and riding motorcycles, can be a deadly mix.
Looking back, it is easy to see where I went wrong. A car full of
people cruising-around at 2 o’clock in the morning should have
should have been an indicator of possible trouble. A vehicle that
suddenly pulled-over to the side of the road should have been
another indicator….a wet road should have gotten my attention, but
it didn’t. My angered state-of-mind had affected my ability to
think straight.
For years, I’ve wanted to share this story with others so they
could learn from my mistake. Is there a lesson to be learned
here? Well, I don’t think I would be writing this story if I
hadn’t been wearing a helmet. I was also wearing a leather jacket,
which helped to prevent road rash to my upper body. If I had
been wearing shoes that laced-up past my ankles, they might have
stayed on my feet, which might have prevented my broken toes.
Obviously, I didn’t leave enough distance between me, and the car
I was following. These days, I take no chances. I just assume that
the “other guy” can’t see me. Period.
I pay attention to what is happening, and I pay
special attention to the environment around me – especially when
nightfall sets in, or if it is raining. I also remind myself how
important it is to keep a clear head and a proper state of mind....and
how things like anger and frustration can lead to disaster when you’re
on a motorcycle.
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