Oh no I don't think your bashing, all valid points, we should put all factors from all sorts of experience on the table. What might work for some won't work for others. Or what you think will work, ends up not working. I don't really notice too much of a difference with my G/F on the back, might be she only weighs 100lbs soaking wet and barely breaks 5'3". Larger pillion might make that difference, I can't say yea or nea for I've only ridden 2 up with my GF. Also I Personally don't have 50 years of experience for I'm only 31 years old. I work out and try to stay healthy with riding a big bike in mind. Not saying your friend isn't healthy or a good rider (Not saying that at all) but the MSF pounded the fact into us the older you are the harder a bike is to keep stable, especially if it's a larger machine riding 2 up. Maybe a smaller bike like your K would benefit them better as a riding couple. All factors that the rider needs to decide what is and not so important in their machine.
True on my end that I wanted that B-King for awhile, saved hard and bought it outright cash. I was excited about it (overly too, sorry guys

) But with over 7K miles on it I can confidently say the B-King was a very poor choice on my end. It scored poorly (IMO) in these critical things; two up, solo long distance, daily use, no storage, poor aftermarket for storage, small fuel tank/small range and it had no real utility in it. At the time I wanted to upgrade from 1000cc standard to a bigger faster standard, which I did but came to realize what I NEEDED was a new type of bike; a full on sport tourer, not a standard rig. I played the ignorance card on the bike for a good month or so for I just bought the thing and convinced my self it was "da bomb". Then logic took over(and after a tough 3K miles ride) and I moved on. Bigger touring friendly bikes make sense if your like me and average 15-20K miles a year, riding 2 up often.
I'm about 200 miles shy on the 2K mile mark with the Connie 14 which isn't bad for I bought the bike 3 weeks ago. Compare that to some people that do 2K miles in an entire season. I also completed an 8 hour bonding course hosted by the MSF with the bike and I'm now very confident on this bike. With that, I would like to think my opinions hold some validity... I can confidently say there is some disadvantages to a bike this size, one being the low speed maneuverability (Riding courses will greatly increase your skills set) and there's no "crazed" acceleration like on +liter bikes like the BK or your K bike. A sacrifice I took for gains in other areas. The only real advantage I can share is my seat time has increased exponentially with the Connie. My ride frequency has gone from a few times a week to every day, rain or shine. 2 up (IMO) is the best for any bike I've owned in my past. Gadgets and technology is abundant for the low sticker cost. Wind protection is good, adjustable screen is awesome although the stock screen is a little too small IMO. Do I love the bike? Yes I do, it makes me crack a smile every time I ride it. It's fast, smooth and nimble for its size and the 1352cc engine is a brute, Generates more torque then my BK so it get up and goes regardless of load. True it's not a speeding sub 10 second 1/4 mile land missile but it's practical, comfortable and I find my self wanting to ride it more frequently for longer distances then the BK. Perk too is that my SO and I picked the bike out together so we both really enjoy it and enjoy the time together on it...
I personally looked at a Wing, I entertained it for sure. I never test rode one but had my SO come with me and see if a full on touring bike would be a suitable match for us. Honestly it wasn't. We don't have kids, were young and the Wing really didn't emanate that "youth" feel when we looked at it and sat on it. We really wanted a sporty bike that had a good degree of long distance comfort. So we passed on the wing. However like Pilot stated allot of people love their wings and won't trade them in for nothing. So don't weigh that one out either.
Ecklund the greatest advice I can give is go out and ride these bikes. Sit on them see whats going to work for you or not. You really need to ride a bike before you make the decision to keep it on the maybe list or nix it. If your close I'd offer you to take the Connie 14 for a ride. You can't tell if it's the one or not without some saddle time. Who knows maybe you'll sit on a wing and tell us all how awesome it is

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