This is the relay I have. It has a nice little graphic on the side in what appears, to me, to be some antediluvean language. Easily readable if you click on the image.
So, near as I can make out:
30 goes right to battery with a fuse.
85 goes to ground (can i use the battery ground, or a chassis ground?)
86 is the ground coming off the coils
87 goes to the sense with AND the power to the coils
Wired correctly, I think I can get less than 12" wire between R/R->Relay->Battery. That will have this one relay powering coils and sense, if I understand this right...
Yes30 goes right to battery with a fuse.
Yes; it is low current so doesn't matter too much.85 goes to ground (can i use the battery ground, or a chassis ground?)
NO 86 needs to come from your ignition/on switch.86 is the ground coming off the coils
Your (-) side of the coils are controlled by the igniter and remain unchanged.
87 goes to the sense with AND the power to the coils
That will work well.
There are some details which require only minimum changes to the harness. Like where the relay mounts, how you control it and how you separate the coils that are currently connected to the ignition/on switch.